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How to find your friends' birthdays on Facebook, and change or hide your own birthday

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You can can use Facebook to check your friends' birthdays. Cavan Images/Getty Images
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Facebook can be a great resource for keeping up with friends and family members. And if you've forgotten someone's birthday, you can always check on the site. 

However, keep in mind that a friend's birthday won't be listed if they've chosen not to share that information on their profile. 

You also have the option to hide your own birthday, or limit who sees it, on Facebook. And, if desired, you can change your Facebook birthday. Here's how to do it all. 

How to find your Facebook friends' birthdays 

You can find out when your friends' birthdays are on both the desktop and mobile versions of Facebook. .

On the desktop website: 

1. Go to the Facebook website and log in to your account, if necessary.

2. Click Events in the left sidebar.

Screenshot highlighting the Events option in the left sidebar on Facebook
Go to "Events" on the left.  Devon Delfino

3. Select Birthdays in the sidebar.

Screenshot highlighting the Birthdays section on Facebook
Select "Birthdays."  Devon Delfino

Your friends' birthdays will then appear on the screen, starting with any birthdays that are on the day of searching, followed by recent and upcoming birthdays.

On the mobile app: 

1. Open the Facebook app and log in to your account, if needed.

2. Tap the magnifying glass icon, located at the top of the screen.

Screenshot highlighting the search icon on the Facebook app
Tap the search feature icon.  Devon Delfino

3. Type Birthdays into the search bar and select the option at the top of the screen. 

Screenshot showing the Birthdays option on the Facebook app
Choose "Birthdays."  Devon Delfino

A list of your friends' birthdays will then appear, ordered in the same way as on the desktop version of the site.

How to change your birthday on Facebook

You can change the birthday listed on your Facebook profile, but there are limits:

  • You can only change your birthday once every two weeks.
  • You can only change your birthday three times overall. So once you've changed your account's birthday three times, you'd have to contact Facebook's customer support team to change it again. And even then, it's not guaranteed that they'll allow you to change it.

On the desktop website: 

1. Go to the Facebook website and log in to your account, if necessary. 

2. Click on your profile icon, located toward the top-right corner of the screen.

Screenshot highlighting a Facebook profile icon on the homepage
Go to your Facebook profile.  Devon Delfino

3. Select the About tab at the top of your profile page.

Screenshot highlighting the About tab on a Facebook profile
Go to your "About" section.  Devon Delfino

4. Choose Contact and basic info in the left sidebar.

Screenshot highlighting the Contact and Basic Info section on a Facebook profile
Choose "Contact and Basic Info."  Devon Delfino

5. Scroll down to your birthday details and click the Edit icon.

Screenshot highlighting the edit icon that appears next to your birthday details on Facebook
Choose "Contact and Basic Info."  Devon Delfino

6. Use the drop-down menus to change your birthday.

7. Hit Save.

The information will then update, but no notification will be sent to your friends.

On the mobile app: 

1. Open the Facebook app.

2. Tap your profile picture at the top of the screen.

3. Select See Your About Info.

Screenshot highlighting the See Your About Info option on a Facebook profile
Choose "See Your About Info."  Devon Delfino

4. Scroll down and tap Edit next to Basic Info

Screenshot highlighting the edit button next to tap Basic Info on a Facebook profile
Tap "Edit" next to "Basic Info."  Devon Delfino

5. Tap the drop-down arrows next to your birth date, month, and year  to select the new birthday details.

Screenshot highlighting the birthday information section on a Facebook profile
Choose your new birthday details.  Devon Delfino

6. Scroll down and tap Save.

How to hide your birthday on Facebook

It can be useful to friends and family members to have your birthday listed on your Facebook profile. But if you prefer more privacy, here's how to hide it on the platform.

On the desktop website: 

1. Go to the Facebook website and log in to your account, if necessary. 

2. Click on your profile icon, located toward the top-right corner of the screen.

3. Select the About tab at the top of your profile page.

4. Choose Contact and Basic Info.

5. Scroll down to the Basic Info section and, next to your birthday or year, select the privacy settings icon to the left of the Edit button.

6. Choose who to share your birthday information with from the available options: Public, Friends, Only me, or Custom.

Screenshot highlighting the various sharing options for your birthday on Facebook
Choose how to share your birthday information from the pop-up menu.  Devon Delfino

On the mobile app: 

1. Open the Facebook app.

2. Tap your profile picture at the top of the screen.

3. Select See Your About Info.

4. Scroll down to Basic Info and tap Edit

5. Tap the privacy settings button, located to the right of your birthday or birth year information.

Screenshot showing the Basic Info section of a Facebook profile
Tap the privacy settings button next to your birthday or birth year.  Devon Delfino

6. Choose who to share your birthday information with from the available options: Public, Friends, or Only me. Note you can only choose Custom viewing privileges from the Facebook website. 

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Devon Delfino is a Brooklyn-based freelance journalist specializing in personal finance, culture, politics, and identity. Her work has been featured in publications such as The Los Angeles Times, Teen Vogue, Business Insider, and CNBC. Follow her on Twitter at @devondelfino.
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